tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1901337479527748319.post8531035922340100642..comments2015-11-19T00:23:25.522-05:00Comments on The Simple Complication: Marriage: From The Mouths of MenDrennaBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692010586389309830noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1901337479527748319.post-5590409260254824732011-01-05T15:29:15.535-05:002011-01-05T15:29:15.535-05:00Hola,
Although I'm not surprised by these res...Hola,<br /><br />Although I'm not surprised by these responses it's good to see the differences. And I respect the honesty of these men.<br />As for Mr Bread....simply dude, don't get married. Your words "Not really but I will have to because I don't want my kids to possibly feel weird or under-served" kids are very intelligent and see more than we think they see. So before you say I do for the sake of the kids, I need you to really think about what you're going to do (3somes, random sex partner, seriously dude stay single).<br /><br /><br />XOXOUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00701161897420162783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1901337479527748319.post-45339461167776539522010-10-04T16:17:21.953-04:002010-10-04T16:17:21.953-04:00the views were good to see (no i'm not surpris...the views were good to see (no i'm not surprised by the comments but was surprised by the ages how men would get married later...hell they already in their 30s. women start talking marriage early 20s ;-) <br />Like most, i disagree with bread--the divorce rate is high b/c a lot of people do not have healthy/positive marriages as an example. we can't even say "my grandparents have been married 50 years". <br />my parents were married 31 years (until my father's death), my in-laws have been married 30 years and counting and my husband & i can't wait to add to our 6+. it's all about finding that right person...not right for the night but right for the lifetime.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1901337479527748319.post-54373960652972709252010-09-29T11:52:33.861-04:002010-09-29T11:52:33.861-04:00Bread is obviously SOGGY to say the least. WTF..yo...Bread is obviously SOGGY to say the least. WTF..you can have a GREAT sex life with ONE partner. *sigh*...goodness gracious. Dont you wanna LIVE and be healthy! And..most young people (under 35) dont see the benefits of marriage because for the most part..they havent seen healthy marriages OR WHOLE complete families in their lives. So wtf do they have to base anything off of? Marriage is SO beneficial...*sigh*. Black men need to get right.TheMochaPeachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09471450481417622605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1901337479527748319.post-79407072697145910482010-09-28T15:32:17.628-04:002010-09-28T15:32:17.628-04:00I don't know that I was surprised by any respo...I don't know that I was surprised by any responses but I totally disagree with Bread's theory that the reason why the divorce rate is so high is because society makes us believe in the idea of monogamy. He sounds like he's trying to "break" societal rules when really, getting married just to not make your future children feel "weird," fills those same societal roles.DrennaBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12692010586389309830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1901337479527748319.post-41926971002388752142010-09-27T19:32:24.416-04:002010-09-27T19:32:24.416-04:00A man's perspective is always insightful. I ca...A man's perspective is always insightful. I can def appreciate it on a subject like this one. Cannot say that I was surprised by any of their answers. I don't know any guys who've dreamed of their wedding the way little girls do. It's a conditioning process, I think.Kendanoreply@blogger.com