tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1901337479527748319.post5903496754896489619..comments2015-11-19T00:23:25.522-05:00Comments on The Simple Complication: The Girl Melanie EffectDrennaBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692010586389309830noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1901337479527748319.post-87746481631363182102011-05-20T16:33:43.692-04:002011-05-20T16:33:43.692-04:00I agree with ADJ. I'm all about what makes the...I agree with ADJ. I'm all about what makes the most sense in the relationship. I don't think my career should have to play the back burner to his. I also think Girl Melanies biggest issue was she got caught up in the life and gave up her dream to be a wife. Why couldn't she be both? They don't have kids so her choice seemed foolish.Kendahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12211165037372563757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1901337479527748319.post-34126163734084186112011-05-20T00:28:51.542-04:002011-05-20T00:28:51.542-04:00Hi, former lurker here :-)
But ideally, I think a ...Hi, former lurker here :-)<br />But ideally, I think a mix of both. I'm in law school and my fiance is studying to be an engineer. We talked about and when he graduates, I'll move wherever he finds a job because I can take the bar and be a lawyer anywhere, but not all parts of the country have good opportunities for computer engineers. I really like the Obama model--they focused on Michelle's career when it made sense, but now it's about Barack. I think it's a give and take.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com