tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1901337479527748319.post4997082433276364000..comments2015-11-19T00:23:25.522-05:00Comments on The Simple Complication: Faith and The Single WomanDrennaBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692010586389309830noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1901337479527748319.post-74394557692303196882010-07-26T19:41:38.456-04:002010-07-26T19:41:38.456-04:00My faith def does not mean nor does it give me the...My faith def does not mean nor does it give me the right to be completely oblivious & delusional. I want to get married & have kids. I believe that's part of my fate. To quote my pastor, "God would not create your partner & not allow you to met, fall in love, & marry him/her." I'm working on me so I'll be ready. I'm not so much searching for him.<br /><br />I think parents & grandparents have a notion on what they want your life to be. I will not be arguing or debating with any of my elders about my life. It's a lost cause lol because they know better. As far as your former co-worker, I think she is a lil to prepared. That would scare the hell out of a man to know a woman basically planned a wedding before even meeting him.Kendanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1901337479527748319.post-54360689117262755862010-07-26T13:22:33.059-04:002010-07-26T13:22:33.059-04:00I believe in being prepared. I believe in encourag...I believe in being prepared. I believe in encouraging yourself and speaking positivity around you.....<br />..with that said..planning a wedding WITHOUT a partner is a tad bit delusional and very Joan Clayton/Charlotte York (LOL). We dont wanna be the crazy friend when it doesn't happen for us. *smh*<br />As for your mother..Im not arguing with that woman. My mother too has her faith and beliefs..and I leave her alone. I think elders have an unforseen wisdom that maybe WE dont see. *shrug*TheMochaPeachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09471450481417622605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1901337479527748319.post-85253861152252082332010-07-26T11:00:22.042-04:002010-07-26T11:00:22.042-04:00The Biblical definition of faith is the substance ...The Biblical definition of faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. The dictionary definition is a complete confidence in a person or plan.<br /><br />One of these relies on a supernatural power, one of them relies mostly on what you know to be true in your life at a particular time. That said, I don't believe in praying for a man. We are human and flawed in our judgements at times. We could be praying based on a flawed perception. <br />I do believe you can design a plan for yourself for what you want. Become all the things you desire and attract like things into your life. That's a bit more realistic and sound, IMO. You can't want good things if you are not good. Mind AND body. Work on you and the rest will come. Faith without works is dead.LuckyGirlnoreply@blogger.com